Frequently Asked Questions

Tell me about joining a fraternity and living in the fraternity house. Whenever you decide to become a new member, you are joining a group of men or women that share common goals and experiences. You will have the option of living in the house as early as your freshmen year.  The cost of living in the fraternity is 60-80% of the average cost of living in a residential hall. This cost includes room, board, and a flexible meal plan. We also have ample parking available for a minimal fee. The house has a variety of spaces available to everybody living in the house, including a quiet study room, a computer lab, a large dining room, a commons in the basement, a TV room,  four bathrooms, a laundry room, and personal food storage. 

I hear a lot about fraternities and alcohol. What is it really like in the fraternity?  Alcohol abuse is unhealthy and inconsistent with our ideals. All fraternities and sororities are expected to uphold state, county, and city laws, and university policies regarding the consumption of alcohol. While opportunities for all college students to choose wisely and poorly exists, Delta Theta Sigma provides a supportive and educational environment that ensures that if a member chooses to consume alcohol, to do so in a responsible manner. In addition, many of our members do not drink, and know that it is okay and feel comfortable with their decision.

I’m concerned about my child’s grades–what impact would fraternity membership have? Students often find managing their time difficult when moving from the highly structured high school environment to the freedoms of college. New students can access the network of fraternity members who already know how to use campus resources like the library, study skills centers, computer labs, and academic advisors. While fraternities are concerned about the academic achievement of their members, your son is still ultimately responsible for utilizing the resources made available.

What about pledging or hazing?  New members of all houses experience a period of orientation. During this time, your son and the other new members will participate in weekly meetings to learn about the university and the fraternity, as well as community service projects and activities designed to build friendships among the new members and the older fraternity members. All fraternities & sororities oppose hazing and are committed to a membership education period which instills a sense of responsibility and commitment in the new members. This period will assist your son in overcoming some of his concerns about success in college. The University of Minnesota’s anti-hazing policy can be found at: https://sua.umn.edu/engage/student-groups/student-group-policies/hazing.

I am afraid that joining a fraternity will take up a lot of time. What about my time?  Participating in the fraternity can be time consuming. However, we encourage the learning of time management skills, both as a new member and an active member, which will help with involvement in the fraternity, on campus, and eventually in a professional career. 

Delta Theta Sigma offers a variety of involvement opportunities, including intramural sports, community service, and assuming leadership positions. Each member will find a level of commitment that is comfortable for him. By learning to balance academics, fraternal involvement, campus involvement, and social commitments, each member is more likely to be successful later on in professional life.

Doesn’t it cost a lot of money to be in a fraternity house? Each fraternity is self-supported through dues charged to all members. In the first year of membership, a few one-time expenses are assessed. After those initial payments are made, the only expenses will be his regular dues, along with any other options, such as clothing.  Lodging is competitive with other housing options. Delta Theta Sigma has and proudly continues to be the lowest costing house while providing all amenities, and the only Fraternity on St. Paul campus that offers a weekly meal plan.

What is my role as a parent?  Be supportive and learn as much as you can by asking questions of your child as they meet people through the recruitment process. Fellow members will be more than happy to tell them (and you) about our organization. 

Because your endorsement of their choice means a lot to them, we encourage parents to ask questions and become as informed as possible about fraternity life. If parents have any questions, they are encouraged to call or e-mail us. Parents and siblings are always welcome to visit and encouraged to participate in our yearly Family Day event, honoring our amazing parents that raised and guide the Men of Delta Theta Sigma.